These words were mostly taken from Ashae Sundra....
Babe, your pleasured self is your most Whole, Free, and Confident self. Come with me. Let's find her.
Your body’s ability to open in ecstatic surrender to the feeling of orgasm is a road to unleash ample creative power and conscious knowing. Its a doorway to spiritual depth and heart opening love.
If your body can’t open, your light and your love can’t fully emit and give.
When your body is opening and when there are waves of pleasure moving through you… you have the ability to re-wire your brain for a life of heart-centered giving and a life run by your soul.
If your belly is hardened.. your pelvis is locked… your chest is tight… your vagina is closed down or numbed.. then your light is prevented from fully moving through for the world. Your heart isn’t able to fully open and give.
Working on opening through the surrender to deep orgasm- alone or with a partner- is a chance for you to move stagnant energy, open your heart to more love you have for you, your partner (if you have one), your mission on Earth, and open new channels of light and consciousness that can educate the brain that you are safe and give you the creative impulse to be your true self.
G-Spot orgasms come from pressure and movement across the inside of your vagina- an area of spongy tissue- about 2/3 of the way from your vaginal opening to your cervix.
Cervical orgasms come from stimulation on your cervix — the opening of your uterus — located deep inside your vagina.
Both of these areas can hold pain, tension, anger, and shame… if they haven’t been lovingly opened.
According to David Deida, G-Spot orgasms are what he calls Stage 2 and cervical are Stage 3.
We want to be engaging in daily Stage 3 practices to open our hearts in deep feminine devotion… like ecstatic movement, any self care practices that help us open, cleansing practices, and… cervical orgasm.
What is necessary for a woman stepping in to her power… is her ability to not only turn herself on and create deep pleasure for herself, but also to understand her body… to make peace with her body… and to internally understand the energetics of ecstasy in her body.
This… is power.
If you’re wanting more confidence in your work in the world… to gain magnetism to grow a soul biz… to manifest your hearts deepest desires… orgasm is your best friend.
Obviously, not some vibrated orgasm from a plastic toy.
The meditative ones that educate your system for success.
Use the power of knowing your own body and circulating sexual energy (with intention) up my spine and body to actually grow into the confident soulpreneur that I am today.
Ecstasy is an energy with information… and it has the power to educate the brain and body for whatever it is you want to move into… So what do you want to use the energy for?
Dance. Move. Breathe in your body. You literally cannot have a deep orgasmic experience if you are not IN your body.
Put on some sensual tunes, and get in to your hips.
Light a candle, get primal if you want.
Move. Move your body. Move stagnant energy. Move the pain away. I will often start by doing tapping and energy work on myself, dancing for a few songs, and letting go of anything on my mind.
When your body vessel is ready for some loving, start around your heart.
One of the (many) reasons I created Radiant Heart Activation is because breast massage opens the sensual energy body and heart in a way that no other stimulation can do.
Many women (or couples) go right into the vaginal stimulation, and this is a recipe for disaster. A woman’s full body has to be activated to fully surrender- and what better place to start than right at the heart space?
Clench your muscles around the crystal and then relax completely (the deepest relaxed state is NECESSARY to release and reach the orgasm that you want.)
And don’t rush. To experience G-spot and Cervical orgasm, you need to give your body much time.
Clitoral orgasms can happen within the matter of minutes… and the latter two might take time to open up and for your body to really receive.
If you’re using a wand and going for cervical orgasm, try rotating the wand very very very slowly. You don’t need much movement. It’s more about feeling the energy of the crystal with your body.
And with everything I teach, deep breathing is crucial.
Hold your breath, hold your orgasm inside.
Breathe deep and allow your surrender to unfold.