MY STORY

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Since I was a little girl, I dreamed of falling in love with a prince who adored me.  But instead, I found myself repeatedly falling into unhealthy relationships, chasing after crumbs of attention from men and struggling with limiting beliefs (some I wasn't even aware of) that made me feel unworthy and incapable of having what I truly desired.  I used to jokingly say my "picker" was broken. 
At 47, I was ready to give up. I had achieved a certain level of success but I wasn't getting what I truly wanted in life and in love.  In fact, I was in love with yet ANOTHER man who was never going to commit or fully choose me.  I kept hoping I could change his mind - racking my brain to figure out what I could do to make him fall in love with me.  I believed it was my job to heal his wounds and make him happy, so I kept giving him my endless patience and enduring love, all the while, accepting the crumbs he offered and clinging to the fantasy of what we could potentially have ONE DAY.  
Then I hit rock bottom. After almost two decades of sobriety, I found myself drinking a glass of wine almost every night to quell my sadness, hopelessness and anxiety.  It was then that I realized I was quite possibly fundamentally broken.  I knew I was repeating a LIFELONG PATTERN in my relationships.  But despite my awareness and efforts to do things differently I kept choosing and attracting emotionally unavailable men.  So, in the beginning of 2024, I made a pivotal and life changing DECISION!  I became willing to do WHATEVER it took to CHANGE, even if that meant being single for an indefinite period of time or perhaps FOREVER.
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Gain Clarity on Your Desires and Challenges
Identify Unhealthy Patterns
Explore Your Worthiness Journey
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I knew at least a year of intentional singleness—devoted to becoming the best version of myself—would be the transformative path I needed to take. Because, more than I wanted to find a partner, (which I wanted really badly), I wanted to stop the incessant feeling that I was not good enough.  
So, I severed all romantic ties, started working with a mentor, sought support from people who had walked this path before me, surrounded myself with people on the same path as me and focused on healing once and for all.  
I was determined to become the self-assured, self-confident and radiant woman I dreamed of becoming - a woman who would eventually attract the loving, aligned soulmate relationship she desired, but from a place of WHOLENESS and ABUNDANCE.  The result?  2024 became the best and most transformative year of my life.  
At first, I was terrified of being single - especially in my late 40's. You see, I have never been married and have no children.  I believe my lifelong insecurity and unworthiness is the reason for this.
Choosing to trust that a year of singleness is what could help me and choosing to believe that it would not feel like DEATH, I dove in.  At first, it felt unsettling and disorienting.  Many fears popped up.  I could feel the addiction to outsource love, attention, approval and validation grasping for anything to stay alive.  So many thoughts came up at first.  "What if I am getting too old to find love?  What if there are no men left that will want an old washed up woman like me with all these new wrinkles and eyes don't work anymore without reading glasses?" 
But deep down, I knew this season of singleness was necessary. I had to face my myself, my fears, my insecurity, my lack of self-worth and all the pervasive limiting beliefs that had driven me to repeatedly attract unfulfilling relationships over and over and over.  My decision to focus on myself was tested. It was as though the Universe was giving me an opportunity to prove to myself just how serious and dedicated I was to this new journey.​
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Ex-boyfriends resurfaced, and new POTENTIAL (unavailable and avoidant ) partners entered my life. But this time, armed with new tools, a new awareness and a strong support system, I was finally able to stand my ground. I was no longer willing to settle or prioritize short-term pleasure over long-term fulfillment. I had developed a CLEAR VISION of what I wanted and needed in both a relationship and in life and I was not going to let anything take me off that path.
For the first time in my adult life, I was able to stay focused and committed. It was during this powerful and transformative season of singleness that I finally attained personal wholeness, purpose, happiness, and contentment within myself. 
​Soon after that, everything started to shift. It felt as though life itself was working on my behalf as I focused on developing a personal relationship with my Higher Power, forming the best relationship with myself I have ever experienced.  While not every day was perfect, things kept getting exponentially better.  I was steadily making progress, taking one small step at a time as I moved forward, taking consistent actions each day, toward my vision to finally cultivate financial freedom, run a successful coaching practice and attract the love of my life.
My career path shifted organically, as I took steps to pivot slowly from being a prolific professional artist for the past 15 years to align more closely with my highest purpose as a mentor for women.  Synchronicities started to unfold around me, and I found myself meeting people who resonated with my goals. Little by little, I began showing up in life as my fullest self—pushing past fears, taking FULL responsibility for my life all the while maintaining a balanced lifestyle that nourished my mental, spiritual, and physical well-being.
Today, my life exceeds anything I ever thought possible. I wake up each morning in my dream home in Hawaii, surrounded by the ocean on one side and the majestic Ko'olau Mountains on the other. Each day, I get to do the work I love—coaching women and witnessing their powerful transformations.
Though I’ve found joy as a prolific artist and singer, helping people break free from their struggles and learn how to create the lives they dream of has become the greatest satisfaction and fulfillment of my life.
I specialize in helping people heal their relationships—the one they have with themself, the one they have with God, and the ones they create with others - including but not limited to family, friends, colleagues, employees, employers and your romantic partner.  
Relationships are so important.  To me, they are the foundation of emotional well-being and hold the key to unlocking growth and fulfillment in all areas of life.  
When you work with me, we’ll be uncovering the root causes of your limiting thoughts and behaviors that are thwarting your ability to experience the most potent life and deep love imaginable for you.  By understanding your own personal patterns and blocks, you’ll finally break free from what attracts and creates unhealthy situations.  You will become someone that is fully empowered and able to create positive relationships and experiences, freed from self-sabotage, unhealed wounds, and limiting beliefs - for good. 

IS THIS YOU? ​

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  • You chase after love, only to end up feeling unfulfilled and disconnected, wondering why the relationship doesn’t bring you the happiness you desire.
  • You seek validation, approval, and love from others, yet struggle to find it within yourself, leaving you feeling incomplete and uncertain.
  • Despite being an intelligent and driven woman, you find yourself stuck in a cycle of choosing partners who are emotionally unavailable or unable to meet your needs, leading to feelings of low self-esteem and dissatisfaction.
  • You often don’t feel "enough"—you’re self-critical, tend to put others’ needs before your own, and sometimes feel as though you must change who you are to please those around you.
  • You experience anxiety when a partner pulls away or doesn’t text right away, prompting you to chase after them or work harder for their attention, hoping they will eventually choose you and recognize your worth.
  • You over-attach quickly to new partners, ignoring red flags and giving men who haven’t earned it your full attention. You may place them on a pedestal as "THE ONE" without taking the time to assess whether you’re truly compatible or if they can provide the emotional support and stability you need.

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Life Coaches are not a therapists, psychotherapists, psychologists, or counsellors. Coaches are unqualified to assist with severe mental health issues. If you are seeking therapy you can search for a therapist in your area at: www.psychologytoday.com or through searching therapist and your location.  If you’re experiencing a mental health crisis call The National Suicide Line 1-800-273-8255 or 000.  The client is aware that a coaching relationship does not represent psychological counseling or any kind of therapy. The Client is also aware that coaching results can vary and are not guaranteed. The Client agrees that they are entering into coaching with the understanding that the Client is responsible for their own decisions and results. The Client also agrees to hold the Coach free from all liability for any actions or results for adverse situations created as a direct or indirect result of advice given by the Coach.