The Secret Dating Hack That No One Is Talking About - But Will Literally Transform Your Love Life
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I see many coaches suggesting their clients make a list - a list of what they want in a man.
Now, I think it is wise to make a list, in fact, I have a great LIST.
But here’s something to think about…
When you apply for a job, you don’t just LIST what you want in a job right?
You present your resume. You show up to the table with a document that highlights your experience, skills & why YOU are the right fit for the job.
I bring this up as an analogy to dating because just as you would never show up to a job interview without presenting your best self, the same applies to relationships. You wouldn’t expect to land a dream job if you don’t highlight what you bring to the table. So why would it be any different when preparing for a life partnership?
Instead of focusing solely on what you want from a man, think about what you offer in a relationship. What qualities, strengths, and values do you bring to the table?
This shift in mindset will not only prepare you for the relationship you desire, but also help you grow into the woman who is ready for it.
My “Relationship Resume” will help you see just how much you bring to the table. It will also give you a reality check on whether you’re truly prepared for the love you’re praying for.
Why should you take this exercise seriously?
If you don’t take the time to reflect on what you bring to the table, you may find yourself:
🚩 Attracting the wrong men because you’re unclear on your own worth.
🚩 Repeating toxic patterns because you haven’t identified what needs healing.
🚩 Settling for less because deep down, you don’t believe you can do better.
🚩 Feeling frustrated with singleness because you’re waiting on a man to “complete” you instead of becoming whole in Christ first.
🚩 Missing out on your future husband because you weren’t in position when God sent him your way.
But if you DO take it seriously you will:
✅ Step into your worth as a high-value woman who knows what she offers.
✅ Attract a godly, high-value man who sees and cherishes your true value.
✅ Gain clarity on what you need to work on, so you’re not carrying old baggage into your new relationship.
✅ Date with purpose, not desperation, knowing that the right man will recognize your worth and value.
✅ Align with God’s best for you, rather than settling for what’s convenient.
✅ Be more likely to attract a partner who values you for who you truly are because you will recognize what you offer.
If you desire a high-value, handsome and godly man, shouldn’t you be making sure you the kind of woman who matches that? Now, I’m NOT saying you need to do this exercise as a way to prove your worth or “earn” love. And this isn’t about being “perfect” or trying to get him to value you! It’s about self-awareness & preparation. This self-reflection helps you identify your strengths and areas for growth.
A smart woman gets ready and asks herself, "Would I date me?"
Remember... You are the treasure. You are the prize.
Love, Mandy
Now, I think it is wise to make a list, in fact, I have a great LIST.
But here’s something to think about…
When you apply for a job, you don’t just LIST what you want in a job right?
You present your resume. You show up to the table with a document that highlights your experience, skills & why YOU are the right fit for the job.
I bring this up as an analogy to dating because just as you would never show up to a job interview without presenting your best self, the same applies to relationships. You wouldn’t expect to land a dream job if you don’t highlight what you bring to the table. So why would it be any different when preparing for a life partnership?
Instead of focusing solely on what you want from a man, think about what you offer in a relationship. What qualities, strengths, and values do you bring to the table?
This shift in mindset will not only prepare you for the relationship you desire, but also help you grow into the woman who is ready for it.
My “Relationship Resume” will help you see just how much you bring to the table. It will also give you a reality check on whether you’re truly prepared for the love you’re praying for.
Why should you take this exercise seriously?
If you don’t take the time to reflect on what you bring to the table, you may find yourself:
🚩 Attracting the wrong men because you’re unclear on your own worth.
🚩 Repeating toxic patterns because you haven’t identified what needs healing.
🚩 Settling for less because deep down, you don’t believe you can do better.
🚩 Feeling frustrated with singleness because you’re waiting on a man to “complete” you instead of becoming whole in Christ first.
🚩 Missing out on your future husband because you weren’t in position when God sent him your way.
But if you DO take it seriously you will:
✅ Step into your worth as a high-value woman who knows what she offers.
✅ Attract a godly, high-value man who sees and cherishes your true value.
✅ Gain clarity on what you need to work on, so you’re not carrying old baggage into your new relationship.
✅ Date with purpose, not desperation, knowing that the right man will recognize your worth and value.
✅ Align with God’s best for you, rather than settling for what’s convenient.
✅ Be more likely to attract a partner who values you for who you truly are because you will recognize what you offer.
If you desire a high-value, handsome and godly man, shouldn’t you be making sure you the kind of woman who matches that? Now, I’m NOT saying you need to do this exercise as a way to prove your worth or “earn” love. And this isn’t about being “perfect” or trying to get him to value you! It’s about self-awareness & preparation. This self-reflection helps you identify your strengths and areas for growth.
A smart woman gets ready and asks herself, "Would I date me?"
Remember... You are the treasure. You are the prize.
Love, Mandy